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Let's talk about…surrogacy!
It's almost 2015, but we, at Shared Conception, realize that surrogacy can somewhat still be a "mysterious" topic or carries a stigma. People sometimes don't know how to react when their friend or loved one says they used or are currently using a surrogacy. As a...
Jimmy Fallon and wife, Nancy Juvonen Welcomes Second Daughter Via Surrogate
Wait, what?! Jimmy Fallon is now a dad of two! The Tonight Show host and wife Nancy Juvonen have shocked the world with the surprising news that another cutie has been added to the family. The pair welcomed their second child on Wednesday, Dec. 3, NBC confirms to E!...
Thankfulness….that's all
As our surrogacy agency, Shared Conception, prepares for the holiday season, we are thankful and grateful for our family, friends, colleagues, intended parents and surrogate mothers. We are thankful for all of you! We won't keep you long on this Black Friday but we...
Joan Lunden –Her Surrogacy Journey
Note: As of the writing of this Shared Conception blog, Joan Lunden, a radio and television personality, is battling breast cancer. She has two sets of twins through the gift of surrogacy and loved both of her experiences (the same surrogate was used for both...
A Family Member as a Surrogate Mother
When a family member proposes to become a Surrogate Mother, it may seem like a dream come true for the intended parents. Of course it is more comforting to have personal knowledge of the medical history as well as the background of the surrogate mother! However, such...
What's in a Surrogacy Contract?
Drafting a surrogacy contract is a complicated thing to do, and only qualified lawyers should fulfill such a mission. Shared Conception works with a few highly efficient attorneys who can assist you on this journey. The below-mentioned checklist of items is...
Surrogacy and a Miscarriage –An Initial Reaction
One often wonders how intended parents deal with the emotions associated with their surrogate suffering a miscarriage. Not only do they have to deal with their own grief and feelings of helplessness but they also have to deal with the surrogate and her feelings of...
The Relationship between the Surrogate and the Intended Parents
Surrogacy relationships require excellent communication and empathy on both sides. The intended parents need empathy for the woman entering surrogate motherhood, but naturally have a lot of worries and questions regarding the pregnancy. The surrogate has to understand...
Designer Surrogacy
In what’s used to be a well-kept secret, some women have used surrogates for more social reasons, not for reasons relating to infertility.*“I call these cases designer surrogacy,” says Lori Arnold, MD, a northern San Diego fertility doctor. She says...
The Process of Breastfeeding and the Intended Mother
Inducing lactation refers to the process of making milk without pregnancy and birth. In a typical breastfeeding situation, the hormones of pregnancy and the changes that these hormones undergo at birth cause a woman's breasts to start producing milk. When...
Opinions from the Surrogates on a Surrogate Breast-feeding Your Baby
"I breastfed both of my kids until they were almost 3, but I really don't want to breastfeed my surrobabies. I do think colostrum is super important and I am happy to pump & provide at least that initial milk. However, I want the babies to bond to their parents,...
Treatments and Drugs for Male Infertility
Shared Conception will listen to you, the intended parents, as we work together to help complete your family. Of course, we will immediately refer you to the best and most appropriate physician as we navigate our way to you all becoming parents. Your...
'Nesting" and Surrogates
Momma cats and dogs do it. Expectant birds do it. And, if you’re like many human moms-to-be, you’re doing it. What are we talking about? Nesting--preparing your "nest" for your soon-to-arrive baby! The difference here is that you are the surrogate mom and so you will...
You, Your Surrogate and Your Baby Shower!
So you are an intended parent and your family and friends are excited about throwing you a fun-filled and festive baby shower. Sounds great but for you, there is only one hiccup Your surrogate mother happens to live relatively close by, you all have...
One Sister's Story of Surrogacy
It's always neat and inspirational to hear about siblings who wholeheartedly support each other through thick and thin. Here's a true story about two sisters who shared childhood memories, family and yes, even a baby.... all through the gift of surrogacy. *My sister...
The Single Dad and Surrogacy
It has been said that you start your own life, not wait for someone to start it for you. Many single males are doing just that, jump-starting their own lives and not waiting for "Mrs Right" to appear before starting a family. Many of these men go to a surrogacy...
What kind of communication would you like to maintain after the birth?
Everyone dislikes uncomfortable situations. Yet, they seem to occur far too frequently when it comes to having a baby. Sometimes, it just seems that privacy goes out the window once you decide to start a family. However, there are times when it’s extremely important...
Real Life Surrogate Experiences
What do you think, would you carry a stranger’s baby? How about your sister’s child? Over the last few years, surrogacy has entered our society with celebrities like Nicole Kidman and Sarah Jessica Parker using surrogates to complete their families. But yet,...