Becoming a surrogate for the first time is a huge decision and an incredibly meaningful one. You’re about to take part in a journey that changes lives in the most beautiful way. But like anything new, 
it comes with questions and a few surprises along the way. If you’re just getting started, here’s some honest, helpful advice from those who’ve been there.
- Connect with an Experienced Surrogate
Support from someone who has already walked the surrogacy path can be really helpful during your first journey. Even though no two experiences are exactly the same, talking with someone who’s been there can bring a sense of comfort and understanding. An experienced surrogate may also offer valuable reassurance and guidance before, during, and after your journey.
- Communication Is Everything
One of the most important parts of a successful surrogacy is clear, open communication, especially with the intended parents. Set expectations early. How often will you update them? Do they want to attend appointments? Are there boundaries that need to be respected? These conversations might feel awkward at first, but they can prevent confusion or misunderstandings later on.
- Make Time for Self-Care
Your body is doing big work, and your mind is along for the ride. Give yourself time to rest, enjoy quiet moments, and say no when you need to. Surrogacy is a gift, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. You deserve to feel supported and cared for, too.
- Keep a Journal or Memory Book
Whether it’s to share with the intended parents or just for yourself, documenting your thoughts, feelings, and milestones can be therapeutic and incredibly special to look back on. This journey is unique, and it’s worth remembering.
- Ask for Help When You Need It
There’s no prize for going through it all alone. Reach out to the team here at Shared Conception or lean on your own family and friends. It’s okay to need support, and there’s strength in asking for it.
At Shared Conception, we’re more than a surrogacy agency; we’re a community. So, whether you need someone to talk to or just have a question about your journey, give us a call at (713) 622-1144.
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