Nesting is a natural phenomenon among pregnant mothers, from cats preparing a cozy space for their kittens to birds meticulously building their 
nests. For human moms-to-be, it often involves cleaning, organizing, and preparing for the arrival of a new baby. But what about surrogates? Do they experience the same nesting instincts, even though the baby isn’t theirs to keep?
The answer is a resounding yes! Most surrogates report experiencing the nesting instinct just as intensely as any other pregnant woman. This makes sense when you think about it—your body doesn’t differentiate between carrying your own child and carrying one for someone else. It only knows that it’s preparing for the arrival of a baby, and that triggers the instinct to nest.
Understanding the Surrogate Nesting Instinct
Nesting can manifest in various ways, from decluttering and deep cleaning to tackling DIY projects and organizing forgotten corners of the home. Many surrogates find themselves swept up in a burst of energy, determined to create order and comfort. This instinct isn’t just about preparing a physical space; it’s a way for the body and mind to feel ready for childbirth.
For surrogates, nesting can feel deeply satisfying. Since there’s no nursery to set up, the energy often goes into making their home a better place for their own family. Closets get organized, pantries get restocked, and those long-ignored to-do lists finally get checked off.
Making the Most of the Nesting Phase
If you find yourself swept up in the nesting instinct during your surrogate pregnancy, embrace it! It’s a unique part of the journey, and it provides an opportunity to focus on your own home and family. Whether it’s organizing long-forgotten spaces or deep cleaning areas that need attention, nesting is a way to channel your energy productively.
While not every surrogate experiences nesting, those who do often find it to be a rewarding and memorable part of their journey. It’s yet another way that carrying a baby for someone else brings unexpected joys and unique experiences.
So, if the nesting bug bites, lean into it. Enjoy the burst of energy and the satisfaction of preparing your space, even if the baby you’re nurturing will soon be going home to another family. After all, every step of surrogacy is part of an extraordinary journey—and nesting is no exception.
Contact us at Shared Conception with any questions you may have about the surrogate journey. You can call us at 713-622-1144 or visit https://sharedconception.com/contact. If you are not yet a surrogate mother but are interested, visit our page: https://deliveradream.com, and we will contact you.
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