managing stress

Being a surrogate comes with its unique set of emotional, physical, and mental challenges. One of the key aspects of being a successful surrogate is managing stress effectively throughout the journey. We will discuss 10 strategies to handle stress and maintain a healthy mindset during the surrogacy process.

  1. Educate Yourself

Understanding the surrogacy process thoroughly can help alleviate anxiety. Educate yourself about the medical procedures, legal aspects, and emotional expectations involved. When you have a clear understanding, you can prepare mentally for what lies ahead, making it easier to manage stress.

  1. Open Communication

Maintaining open communication with the intended parents, the surrogacy agency, and your support network is crucial. Express your concerns, fears, and expectations to those involved in the process. Keeping the lines of communication open allows for better understanding and support.

  1. Establish Boundaries

Set clear boundaries regarding your involvement and expectations from the beginning. Clearly define what you are comfortable with during and after the surrogacy journey. Having well-established boundaries will help in managing stress related to potential conflicts or misunderstandings.

  1. Build a Support System

Surrogacy can be emotionally taxing at times. Build a support system that includes family, friends, or fellow surrogates. Sharing experiences and emotions with others who can relate can provide a sense of relief and comfort during challenging moments.

  1. Focus on Self-Care

Prioritize self-care throughout the surrogacy process. Pay attention to your physical and emotional well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice relaxation techniques, exercise, and maintain a healthy diet. Taking care of yourself is essential to effectively manage stress.

  1. Seek Professional Help

Consider speaking to a mental health professional, such as a therapist or counselor specializing in reproductive issues and surrogacy. They can provide guidance and coping strategies to help you navigate the emotional challenges that may arise during the surrogacy journey.

  1. Practice Stress-Relief Techniques

Incorporate stress-relief techniques into your daily routine. This can include deep breathing exercises, yoga, meditation, journaling, or even engaging in a hobby you enjoy. These practices can help you stay centered and reduce stress levels.

  1. Stay Informed and Involved in Your Pregnancy

Keep yourself informed about the health of the pregnancy, attend regular prenatal check-ups, and stay involved in your prenatal care. Being informed and actively participating in the pregnancy can provide a sense of control and reduce anxiety.

  1. Be Realistic and Accept Imperfections

Understand that not every aspect of the surrogacy journey will be perfect. There may be ups and downs, and unexpected challenges may arise. Be realistic in your expectations and embrace imperfections with a positive outlook.

  1. Reflect and Practice Gratitude

Take time to reflect on the purpose and meaning behind your decision to become a surrogate. Focus on the positive impact you are making in the lives of the intended parents. Practicing gratitude can shift your perspective and help you cope with stress.

If you are interested in becoming a surrogate mother or finding a surrogate, we are here to help you. You can contact us at any time, and our team at Shared Conception will answer any questions you have. Visit our website at or call us at 713-622-1144.