Becoming a surrogate is an incredible way to help someone build a family. As you explore that possibility, there is plenty to 
learn, from the first conversation with an agency to the details of your delivery plan.
Start With a Contract You Understand
Your surrogacy agreement puts the details of your arrangement in writing. It should address compensation and agreed expenses, medical costs, expectations during pregnancy, and the legal steps involved in establishing the intended parents’ parentage.
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) recommends that surrogates and intended parents have separate, independent attorneys. Your attorney should represent your interests, explain your responsibilities, and help you understand the laws that apply to your arrangement. ASRM also recommends completing the agreement and legal clearance before treatment begins.
A useful contract is one you understand, not just one you have signed. At Shared Conception, we can help you understand what the contract terms are and what they mean for you.
Make Healthcare Conversations a Priority
Your appointments are opportunities to learn about your care. Ask your medical team to explain medications, procedures, expected benefits, risks, and available alternatives in language that makes sense to you.
ASRM’s ethical guidance recognizes the surrogate as the person who provides consent for her own medical care throughout treatment, pregnancy, delivery, and aftercare. Involving intended parents in the experience does not replace your informed consent. A simple habit can help: keep a running list of questions on your phone and bring it to appointments. Even a quick clarification can make the next step easier to understand.
Know How Care and Expenses Will Be Covered
Before moving forward, ask your attorney and insurance provider to clarify how medical bills will be handled. Discuss deductibles, copays, any coverage exclusions, and responsibility for expenses insurance does not pay. Ask about postpartum care, too.
Your agreement should clearly address medical expenses and other financial arrangements. Having those details documented gives everyone a shared reference throughout the journey.
Understand How Your Voice and the Law Fit Together
Discuss preferences early, including appointment participation, communication, and delivery planning. These conversations give you and the intended parents a chance to understand each other’s expectations.
Legal protections depend on the applicable law. In Texas, for example, a gestational agreement cannot limit the gestational mother’s right to make decisions to safeguard her health or the embryo’s health. Your attorney can explain this protection alongside other laws that affect available care.
Interested in Becoming a Surrogate?
Our team is here to help you through the entire surrogacy process so that you never feel alone. Our website provides information on the requirements and the process of becoming a surrogate mother. If you are ready to move forward, or have any questions, please contact us at(713) 622-1144.
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