Clearing Up a Few Surrogacy Myths

If you’ve ever thought about becoming a surrogate, chances are you’ve heard a few myths or misconceptions along the way. Surrogacy is a generous and life-changing journey, but not everyone fully understands what it involves. Let’s clear the air on some of the most common myths about being a surrogate mother, so you can feel confident if this path is on your heart.

Myth 1: Surrogates Get “Too Attached” to the Baby

One of the biggest misconceptions is that surrogates won’t be able to part with the baby. The truth? Most surrogates enter the process with a clear understanding that they are carrying someone else’s child. While it’s normal to bond during pregnancy, surrogates often describe the experience as being more like an “aunt” or “babysitter”. They’re proud to help, but they know from the start that the baby belongs to the intended parents.

Myth 2: Surrogacy Is Only About the Money

Compensation is part of surrogacy, but for most women, it’s not the main reason they choose this journey. Surrogates are usually motivated by the joy of helping someone else build their family. The financial side is more about covering the surrogate’s time, effort, and expenses.

Myth 3: Anyone Can Be a Surrogate

Not true. Surrogates go through medical, emotional, and psychological screenings before being approved. These evaluations make sure the surrogate is healthy, prepared, and supported for the road ahead.

Myth 4: Surrogates Have No Say in the Process

In reality, surrogates have a voice every step of the way. From matching with intended parents to making decisions about their own health, surrogates play an active role in shaping their journey.

Being a surrogate mother is often misunderstood, but the truth is far more beautiful than the myths. It’s about compassion, strength, and the incredible gift of helping another family come true. If you’re considering surrogacy, know that the reality is a rewarding and empowering experience you’ll carry with pride forever. Please reach out to Shared Conception if you are considering becoming a surrogate mother either by filling out the Surrogate Inquiry Form or by calling us at (713) 622-1144.