What Surrogates Can Expect During Prenatal Doctor Appointments

As a surrogate, stepping into those first prenatal doctor appointments can feel both exciting and a little nerve-wracking. You’re caring for someone else’s child, and that carries a unique blend of responsibility and coordination. Knowing what to expect at these visits can help you feel more prepared and more confident throughout the pregnancy.

First Things First: More Monitoring Early On

In the early weeks, your appointments might be more frequent than in a traditional pregnancy, since you will still be under the care of a fertility clinic. These early visits often include bloodwork, ultrasounds, and medication checks to ensure the pregnancy is progressing as it should. Once the pregnancy is considered stable, usually between 8 and 12 weeks, care typically transitions to a regular OB/GYN.

Expect Plenty of Questions

Your doctor will want a full picture of your health, lifestyle, and how you’re feeling physically and emotionally. Be honest and open, your well-being is essential. You’ll also likely discuss any medications or supplements you’re taking, dietary needs, and any side effects you may be experiencing.

Routine Checks and Tests

Throughout the pregnancy, you’ll have a series of routine tests: blood pressure, weight, urine samples, and fetal heart rate monitoring. These checkups help ensure both you and the baby are staying healthy. If any concerns come up, they’ll likely be addressed quickly and with care.

Coordinating with the Intended Parents

In many cases, the intended parents are very involved. Some attend appointments in person or virtually. Others may ask for updates or reports. It’s helpful to discuss in advance how much involvement everyone is comfortable with so you can manage expectations together.

Advocating for Yourself Matters

You’re the one carrying the baby, so your comfort and care matter just as much as anyone else’s. Speak up if something feels off or if you need extra support. Don’t hesitate to ask questions or request more information from your doctor.

At the end of the day, prenatal appointments are about keeping everyone healthy, informed, and reassured. Each visit is a step closer to delivering a healthy baby and fulfilling an incredible promise you’ve made. If you have any questions during your surrogacy journey, please don’t hesitate to call us at (713) 622-1144.